FAQ
Is this service just for gay men?
— I trained within the context of a gay men’s group and my expertise is with the male body. So yes, my service is aimed at men. But not just gay men. Many men who do not identify as gay are curious about male touch, which can sometimes feel a bit out of bounds in our society. A tantric massage session can be an opportunity to request any kind of touch within a safe and respectful context. It can also be an opportunity to discuss any feelings you might have around the body, touch or sexuality and know that you will not be judged in any way.
I have some training and experience around the female body, but not enough for me to feel confident about offering a professional service.
Do I have to be naked for the massage?
— No, but consider it. Covering up any part of the body can reinforce the belief that there is something wrong or shameful about that part. It can be very refreshing to experience a massage that includes your whole body in a natural and flowing way.
Which parts of the body are touched during a massage?
— The object of tantric massage is to give an experience of wholeness, so usually the massage includes the whole body. But with every client I check beforehand if there are parts that you do not wish to be touched. I usually include the cock but it can be left out it you prefer. Anal massage is often included, but only with the client’s permission.
Can we talk about it beforehand?
— There is always as much time as you need, before the session starts, to discuss how you would like it to go. You can also text me or call me to ask about my service any time. And by the way, if you need to talk a lot – for example, if it’s talk you need right now rather than massage – let me know, and we can work something out.
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