About me

I am a trained Sacred Intimate working in Berlin and sometimes London. 

I’m a Brit living in Germany. From 2006 to 2011 I trained with a group called Gay Love Spirit, whose mission was to help gay and bisexual men to find ways to reconcile sex and spirit. From 2009 to 2011 I took part in their Two-Year Training, at the end of which I graduated as a Sacred Intimate.

Sacred Intimacy is a term coined by the Body Electric school in the eighties to denote a new way of working with the erotic body, based on mutual respect between the Client and the Intimate. At the core of this philosophy is the belief that erotic energy can be used not only for pleasure, but also to bring about personal growth.

Some Sacred Intimates use the term “erotic healing ritual,” and there can be an element of healing in the practice. The erotic energy is primal life-energy and it can help the body’s natural healing processes.

My basic service is tantric massage. I also offer mentoring, sex-coaching and emotional support. I speak English, German and a little French and Italian.

Dates of forthcoming London visits, if any, are given on my Prices page.

I look forward to meeting you.

Robert Duncan

photo by Graham Martin

EROTIC MASSAGE FOR PERSONAL GROWTH
One thing that’s not generally known is that  erotic massage can be used for personal growth. The combination of heightened erotic energy and a desire for change can have powerful effects.

Before the session, decide how you would like to change. For example, you may want to understand more about how you function psychologically. Or you may want to unlock a certain side of yourself – be more creative, more assertive, more connected, whatever. Take that idea to the session. Maybe tell me about it. Then hold it in your mind during the session, and especially at the end

TESTIMONIAL

“Duncan’s hands are amazing. While visiting Berlin I searched for a tantric erotic massage and found Duncan’s listing. He responded quickly to my request. He gave a warm hug as a greeting and we spent a few minutes before the session to talk about the massage and to see if I had any issues with my body. Duncan took my body on a wonderful spiritual-erotic journey with waves of pleasure coursing through my body at different times during the massage. He is well trained and knows how to make your body and spirit feel alive. If I lived in Berlin I would want to see him often. I highly recommend visitors and residents alike to book a session with Duncan. You will be greatly rewarded!”

  • John from San Francisco
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